It is possible that you think you are deeply in love with a woman, which is normal when you are in a romantic relationship. But, when you start dating a woman, it is too early to come to that conclusion, if you ask me, and more so when you really don’t know the woman that you are chasing.

Then, how do you know that this woman is for you? Is she the right woman you are looking for?. How do you know that this woman is into you?. It’s something that you should consider when you pursue a woman. That way, you prevent a woman from using you and wasting your time, money and energy.

Many times, you feel so attracted to a woman, that you close your eyes to all the negative signs that tell you that this particular woman is not in love with you. And more so if infatuation is the reason why you pursue this particular woman. In your Romeo fantasy, you rationalize a relationship that only exists in your mind, where everything is perfect for fear of being rejected.

Chasing a relationship, in which you put all your trust in a woman you don’t know yet and try to project the image of a nice guy could be your first mistake. But, if she’s not in love with you, why doesn’t she tell you?. This is where this type of video, it will show you a series of signs that will indicate, that this woman is using you. Either for money, for sex or for the company that you are providing, in which you are in the friend zone and don’t know it.

Before getting into the topic that brought you to this channel, the title of this video is the reason for your visit, apart from talking about the signs that she is only using you for money. I will talk a little about some general signs that you should not ignore if you want to know when a woman is just using you.

Sign number one, you have to pay everything when they go out on a first date, and you have to go to the places mostly chosen by her. Many times, when you arrives at that place, you observe that many people in that place call her name, and sometimes she offers a drink to her friends who are at other tables, a drink that you must pay out of your pockets.

I know that it is the norm, especially on the first date, that, as a man, many times you should pay to impress a girl, But it is one thing to pay for things she likes and another thing to pay for the whims of her friends, who, in some cases, are in the same place that she frequents. Every night or on weekends, where she goes out on her first date with you. When you observe this type of behavior, it tells you that she is only using you to pay the bills of the sites that she visits frequently.

When you are on a date with her, she is the type of woman that men like to wear. Many times, the kind of woman who orders the most expensive drink like a bottle of whiskey or an expensive brand of wine, and let’s not talk about how often she orders this type of drink. All the time, she keeps asking you to take her to different places that are chosen by her, and she will probably not even thank you, is an economic effort that you are making, giving you the “thank you.”.

Because this type of girl likes to use men, she thinks that a man who is pursuing her romantically to please her as a way of impressing her, should be your first step. Many times, this type of woman chooses from the menu of the most expensive restaurant in the city a type of exotic food that she has never eaten in her life, and sometimes after the plate she has ordered arrives, She starts talking about how poorly prepared the food is, creating the impression on you that she knows what she is talking about when it is all just a cover to hide her ignorance about the type of dish she chose from the restaurant’s menu.

In the most extreme cases, she blames you for her poor choice because of your little knowledge of the exotic dish ordered by her, although this exotic food dish can cost you a week’s salary. If you complain about the high price of exotic food ordered by her without asking, she will tell you that you are a cheap man, who has no money to pay for the lifestyle and taste that a woman like her demands, creating the impression on you that you cannot afford a woman like her.

This type of woman, when it suits her expects you to treat her traditionally every time she goes out with you where you pay everything, but she always reserves the right to treat you as if She was a modern woman, and being submissive to a man was not part of her plans.

Sign number two. when you notice that the woman who attracts you avoids talking seriously with you about where or what the relationship is about it or she doesn’t show any of the signs that she wants to enter into some type of commitment in a relationship with you or does not send you any signal that you meet her expectations as a man. She doesn’t want to talk about her family, where she lives, or her aspirations as a woman. She only wants to talk about her friends, and activities that she likes to do with her friends.

she only wants to talk about the things that interest her, and she does not want to talk about her emotions or her reasons why she is dating you, whether she likes you or not, or she doesn’t care whether you like her or not.

If you show any kind of affection towards her by holding her hands and touching her waist and she rejects you with a disapproving look as if telling you that she is not the type of woman. Are some questions that she avoids answering, it is a good sign that she is just using you and she is not interested in you as a man.

Some women are good at using the mystery, play hard to get, silence and sexual attraction that they provoke in a man as a mechanism of emotional manipulation to maintain your interest in her, a Woman who is not really interested in you. A lot of girls will tell you that on the first date, she has the kind of conversation that she is not willing to share with someone she doesn’t really know.

Because the moment you discover her theater, the game used by her will end, and She will lose to you the attention that you are giving her; without it, she contributes nothing to the relationship, whatever it may be.

Sometimes she will tell you that she only goes out with guys who attract her attention, but she is speaking in the third person. But, when you are on the second and third dates, and you still have the same resistance to having her talk to you about what you are interested in, and she always looks for an excuse not to talk about it.

It tells you that she is hiding something from you. That tells you that she is not interested in you romantically, which suggests that she is simply using you and putting you in the friend zone. She is using it for entertainment.

I always say, as a man, that rather than learning to flatter a woman on the first date, the conversation should focus on the things she likes. Based on her response, but also the things that you like to do, and watch how she responds.

If a woman uses thousands of excuses for not giving you a specific answer, she is playing the same game that she is used to with other men, in which talking about the relationship is never part of the conversation. Women by nature are emotional, and a woman’s cold responses to your questions are a sign to consider if you are talking to the wrong woman.

When she’s just playing hide and seek on a date and what you want or feel is secondary to her or without contributing anything to the relationship, this may be a sign that this girl is only using you.

Many times, when women know that they are using a man, they rarely talk about the things they like or dislike about you, much less the real reasons for accepting a date with you. If she doesn’t want to explain the reasons for the date, she may just be using you. The worst thing about this is that she is using you for personal benefit, feeding her ego as a woman by playing with you.

Sign Number Three. The girl you like only wants to do things that are convenient and pleasant for her. This type of girl is selfish by nature, but she is interested in the pleasure that you can produce, not the pleasure that she can give you. Like men in love, to conquer a woman, she must show interest in something that she likes.

It is important, but there comes a time in the relationship where you have to impose, in a subtle way, who you are and the things you like to do. When you date a woman whose needs are not important to her, a woman whose needs are met is something she demands of you, it tells you that this woman is not into you.

Inviting her to do with you those activities that you like is necessary as a way of knowing not only what you can do for her, but also what she can do for you. If she only thinks of herself and does not attend to your needs, that is a sign that she is using you. Starting from the woman’s response To this desire of yours to fill your men’s needs, it can give you an idea of ​​what she really wants, and meeting her needs is her main priority. Due to the fact that a woman who is using you only wants to do things that are convenient and pleasant for her. For this woman, coming out the winner is her mentality, and meeting her needs is the only thing they want from this relationship.

Always pay attention to the signals that she is sending you. This is where you want to go, and her reaction is relevant, if you see her avoiding sitting by your side or If she avoids any affectionate gesture on your part, does not want you to pick her up at her house, or does not want to be seen in public with you, it is a clear sign that you are not her man, and she is only using you.

Don’t be afraid to challenge her and refuse to go to that place that she wants to go when you are the one paying for everything, and you watch how she responds. If she doesn’t go out with you that day, or she doesn’t go to a site chosen by you, and she always keeps using the same excuses that nobody believes, that’s a good sign that she is probably using you.

Sign Number four. If on your first date she is interested in the type of work you do, what position you hold in the company, whether you own a business or graduated from college, but also how much money you make every year—that type of question could be useful if you want to impress a woman, but it can also lay the groundwork for her to use you as an ATM.

When a woman on the first date is only interested in what you can offer her economically, or what is your level of wealth possession? O If she is not interested in knowing your personal tastes, the things you are passionate about, and your plans for the future, you are dealing with a woman who is only using you for money.

For some reason, on payday, you notice a change in attitude in everything she says and smile at the little nonsense you do. Do not have any doubt that day that you receive your salary payment is the reason for this change. If there is a girl in your life who never seems to commit to being with you, and at the end of the month, or every two weeks, is with you just before payday, have no doubt that she is counting on your money to activate the social calendar.

This interest in you the day she knows that you have money available, you can be sure of something, and she is definitely using you. If that day she invites you to walk where there are many stores and she stops and shows you something that she would like to have, it is a sign that you should consider because she only sees you as a personal credit card.

I’ve always thought that one of the main reasons good guys finish last. If she knows that you are the nice guy type and that she will always offer to pay her bill, help her with some financial problems, pay with your money for the economic problem that she is suddenly facing, and this situation only appears the day you receive your regular payment. You must accept that you are trapped in a pattern of behavior where you are considered an automatic money machine. It is time to move on. Because she is only using you as a debit card wherever she wants to use you to pay the bill.

There are many men who pay to be in the presence of the woman they like, even knowing that this woman is not attracted to him. This type of man feels happy when they are in front of this woman, who fuels this delusional behavior.

Many times, the man uses the woman to increase his personal ego, and the woman uses the man to fill an emotional void in your type of transaction where both parties get what they want. When you are in an illusory relationship, you look at the woman not as a real couple, but as the main figure in the romance novel that only exists in your mind.

Some men find it difficult to abandon that fantasy, so they continue to allow themselves to be used by a woman, either for sex, company or money. If that is your situation, it is possible that you have low self-esteem or a low valuation as a man. If you as a man, pay to be in the presence of a woman who does not want you, you must look for the reasons for this type of emotional dependency.

As a man, you can give a woman the biggest apartment, the most expensive luxury car, and the most expensive jewelry. For a woman who is using you for your money, all those gifts will never be enough. No matter how much money you spend to meet a woman’s financial expectations, her love is something you can’t buy. The moment you discover that she is with you for the money, it is time to cut that relationship, leave that woman behind, and pursue a woman who truly values you and what you can offer in a healthy love relationship.

What I think about this topic?

We have to make a difference between a woman who is using you for your money known as gold digger and that young woman who sells her sexual services and companionship to an old man with money, known as sugar daddy.

In the first relationship, the woman is using the man for his money, which is reprehensible and immoral, on the contrary, in the second relationship, the woman is charging for her service, which should be considered as a simple transaction between two people where feelings and marital loyalty is not part of the agreement.

I understand that there are many women out there and you as man deserve better. You can be sure that you will find the woman you are looking for, a woman who meets all your expectations, whatever the type of love relationship that you have in mind.

if you are a man who keeps showing up and educating yourself on how to become better man,
but also a better lover and a better husband, you will find the love of a woman that you really deserve. As Man something you always have to remember that you don’t need a woman to validate you, you need a woman to empower your life and for you to share an incredible opportunity to build a good future.